"I’m going crazy".
A woman in her 30s asked me as her family doctor for a referral to a psychiatrist because she knew she was going crazy.
She had been increasingly stress by her demanding son and overbearing husband so she went to the library and borrowed a book on relaxation. She read the instructions then sat in a chair, closed her eyes and relaxed her toes … then her feet …
She was strung up that by the time she got to her ankles, her whole body let go … and she was spooked. She managed to pull herself back from the brink, but was then experiencing increasing episodes of stuckness. She would become paralysed half way though a doorway, part the way to lift ing her spoon to her mouth at breakfast … and these experience terrified her.
I was just starting to learn about hypnosis and offered her the idea that she didn’t have a problem, but was just too good at this, that she was relaxing to much too quickly and felt out of control.
She agreed to spend 10 - 15 minutes with men each weekday for the next 2 weeks where I guided her into mild relaxation, and then out of it again.
After these experiences, her terror dissipated and she continued with her family life. I continued to be her doctor for several years, and there was no further problem.
If I had referred her to a psychiatrist, she would have been diagnosed as having catatonic schizophrenia. In retrospect I now realise she was experiencing spontaneous catalepsy - a common experience in hypnosis, but in spite of my ignorance, she was saved from a lifetime of pathologising treatment, which most likely would have also contaminated her son’s future.
I love this example, and in general the issues of working with someone who can be saved a lot of unnecessary treatment by an intuitive reframe of the problem. It reinforces the non-medicalization or psychologizing of things so that the client's natural abilities or resources can be brought to useful deployment.
It's really great to know a lot of things, and it's really great to not know a lot of things
Thx Keep them coming.